Most people who know me know that I dislike Facebook intensely; I’ve said so on here several times. Nevertheless I have a Facebook account as it is useful for small ‘closed’ groups, like our writers’ club, a project I did with a group of teenagers in our village and even my ‘daily journals’ following our summer trips to Romania during which I had limited access to internet.
It’s also useful for ‘Messenger’ for brief communications with someone you know opens it regularly but otherwise, for anything important, it’s better to go to email as Messenger messages are often ignored.
As far as the Romania trip is concerned, I’ve begun to receive ‘requests’ to join the group from people whose names mean nothing to me. What is really strange is that, typical of Facebook, they say nothing about themselves. Consequently, such requests are ignored.
Facebook laziness
It could be they read about the group on this blog as I’ve referred to it a time or two but, if so, why on earth don’t they say so? Facebook inspired laziness I think; now, for so many things you just ‘push a button’ not needing to write a word. Yes, it’s good to have a reminder of a friend’s birthday but for heaven’s sake write a personal message to them! (But take care, they may be telling a ‘porky’ in their profile 😳).
’Publicize’
For quite a while the ‘Publicize’ facility of WordPress was turned on on this blog, putting a short summary of posts on Facebook and Twitter (I never selected the other options). A few posts ago I turned this off. One of the problems with this facility is that Facebook may choose the least relevant picture if there are more than one, people putting a ‘like’ on that having never read the post. As pictures I put on a post are always an integral part of the post the ‘like’ doesn’t mean a lot. I reckon if anyone is really interested in what I have to say they’ll follow the blog.
Very occasionally I may turn ‘publicize’ on to tell the tightly restricted group of ‘friends’ on Facebook (who may or may not be friends) of a particular post which may be of special interest to them, excluding those who, for whatever reason, I don’t want to point to it.
Of course a ‘like’ from someone I don’t know on this blog is always welcome because, as I said in yesterday’s post, it often sets me off on a journey to other realms as I almost always follow up with a visit to the blogger’s site.
WordPress reader
Nevertheless, I have noticed a similar problem to that with ‘publicize’ with the WordPress reader. It’s hard to avoid the conclusion that some of the ‘likers’ have not read the complete post, just putting a ‘like’ on the introductory few words and the one picture which accompanies it. If I put a ‘like’ on a post you can be sure I’ve pushed the ‘visit site’ button, read the whole thing and seen all the pictures.
As I’ve said before, the above comments may not apply to anyone using their blog to promote a business, whether it is declared as such or not (eg, those asking for a donation in some way, or promoting a book they have on Amazon).
October 24, 2017 at 7:36 am
I guess I am even grumpier 🙂 so to quote Ilze 🙂
I agree with you and even more, I lend a sympathetic ear 🙂 to what you have mentioned in one of our conversations: “What would Mr John Galsworthy say about Facebook?’ I will turn it into an article (soon).
I agree with the opinion of an esteem blogger who said that Facebook is for Hate and WordPress is for Love.
Nevertheless I did have a Fb account.
Everybody can have a FB account based of nothing, but not everybody can have and manage and write a blog. And consequently read other hand-crafted amazing life stories.
I have met many wonderful people here, so I do agree WordPress is for love ❤
I am sorry I could't follow you around by joining your group.
FB is based on the idea that an image is worth a thousand words, or as a Romanian blogger said: it is that busy place where nobody reads anything.
October 24, 2017 at 2:22 pm
I really look forward to your post about what John Galsworthy would have said! I do agree about FB & blog: as I think I said in a recent post, I’m astounded that all but one members of our writers’ club have Facebook but only two other than me have a blog (three if you count one – not WordPress – which is mainly for photos not words).
I do regret that friends cannot see Facebook groups unless they have signed up to Facebook; not so with WordPress of course, another reason to love it. In fact I made a FB account originally, under a pseudonym, just to be able to see some FB posts.
I might see if I can transfer all my FB posts on our trip(s) to Romania to a page on grumpytyke.
Love and hate, that for many about sums it up.
October 23, 2017 at 9:01 pm
Oh, this one was grumpy :)! And I know what you are talking about 🙂 If I can remember correctly. I asked to join your Romania trip group but I don’t know if I was accepted :D. Also, I found that group through your blog and never DM to you! 🙂
October 24, 2017 at 3:45 pm
Hi Ilze. I don’t think you asked to join the group – I’ve looked through requests and other places. I didn’t know you had a FB page but I found it (you seem just to ‘promote’ your WordPress posts to it, as I used to do) and have tried to add you as a member to my group several times today but nothing happens. I’ve one more thing to try.
Grumpy? Yes. If I look through FB (eg our village site) much I get very grumpy so I do it rarely.
October 24, 2017 at 4:20 pm
OK. Petronela, who knows far more about FB than I do, tells me I can’t add you to the group as your FB is a page, not a ‘person’.